Why Progress in ABA Isn’t Always Linear
- Janelle McDonald
- Jul 2
- 2 min read
If you’re a parent or caregiver walking through ABA therapy with your child, you’ve probably felt it: the thrill of a big breakthrough one week, followed by the worry of what feels like a step backward the next. It can be confusing, even discouraging.
Here’s something we want every family to know: progress isn’t always linear — and that’s completely normal.
What “Non-Linear Progress” Looks Like
Imagine a line graph. We tend to picture progress as a straight line heading steadily upward. But real growth — for children and adults — almost never looks like that. It looks more like a jagged line: some weeks climbing, some weeks dipping, but trending upward over time.
Your child might master a skill, seem to lose it, then regain it stronger than before. They might sail through one goal and struggle with another that seems easier. All of this is part of the process.
Why It Happens
There are lots of reasons progress ebbs and flows:
Skills take time to generalize. A child might do something perfectly in one setting but need more practice to do it everywhere.
Growth in one area can temporarily affect another. When a child is putting energy into a new skill, other areas might pause.
Life happens. Illness, schedule changes, big transitions, or even a growth spurt can all affect how a child shows up day to day.
Learning isn’t a straight road for anyone. Think about learning to drive, or picking up a new language — you have good days and off days.
Why the Hard Weeks Aren’t Setbacks
Here’s the reframe that helps so many families: a tough week isn’t the plan failing. Often, it’s part of the plan working.
In ABA, we sometimes even expect behavior to get a little bigger before it gets better. What matters isn’t any single day or session — it’s the overall trend over time. That’s exactly why your child’s team collects data: to zoom out and see the bigger picture that’s hard to feel in the day-to-day.
What You Can Do
Zoom out. When a hard week hits, look at the month, not the day.
Celebrate small wins. Progress lives in the little moments, not just the milestones.
Stay consistent. Consistency at home is one of the most powerful things you can offer.
Talk to your team. A good provider will help you understand what the data is showing and what to expect next.
Give Yourself Grace, Too
Watching your child grow is a journey for you as well. On the slow weeks, be as patient with yourself as you’re learning to be with your child. You’re showing up, and that matters more than you know.
At Baker Consulting, we measure success by the overall trend — and we walk alongside families through every part of the journey. If you’d like a team that celebrates the wins and supports you through the hard parts, reach out anytime.
Baker Consulting LLC — ABA Done Differently.
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